Family & Couples Therapy Retreats
The FTVCA approach to couples therapy focuses on identifying relational strengths and drawing upon these strengths to address difficulties. This focus helps avoid the often negative and self-fulfilling impact of “problem focused therapies". Relational problems are approached in a manner that supports a fundamental sense of hopefulness and mutual appreciation. Through the use of careful listening, coaching in relationship enhancement skills, shared activities and humor, couples rediscover a sense of friendship and partnership essential to a happy relationship.

Issues such as addiction, anger management, sexual compatibility, money management, lack of communication, parenting, values diversity and in-law relationships are typical concerns for couples coming into this program. Away from the culture in which these difficulties have evolved, couples often find previously inaccessible opportunities for new beginnings.
This model is an excellent avenue for couples with a treatment resistant partner or unsuccessful earlier attempts at therapy. The opportunity to combine the fun of a great vacation with the somewhat anxiety provoking process of directing attention towards one’s struggling relationship, is for many, the balance that allows them to move forward.

An area of specialization for FTVCA is support to couples dealing with loss and/or parenting of a child with special needs.
The clinical team of FTVCA is open to collaboration with community based therapists with whom couples or individuals are currently working. For those involved in therapy, if requested, Dr. Stewart will contact and collaborate with their therapist both before and after the treatment.

The Divorce Diversion Program (DDP) is the newest clinical service offered through FTVCA, and represents our most structured and intensive couples service. This program is designed to support couples with serious relational difficulties, who are considering or already pursuing separation or divorce. This is a seven day program which involves both traditional couples, and individual therapy, as well as therapist supported experiential work. The experiential aspect of the DDP entails a therapist joining the couple in a variety of activities to allow for more direct observation and coaching in communication, negotiation, conflict resolution, mutual support and acceptance.
The cost associated with this program is approximately 40% more than the typical couples retreat to allow for significantly greater clinical team involvement and cost- inclusive experiences such as:
*sailing
*horse back riding
*community service
*SCUBA diving
*snorkeling
*surfing or boogie boarding lessons
*canopy tours
*yoga lessons
*spa treatments
*deep sea fishing
*meals (with and without alcohol)
*back country exploration.
Determination of activities in which to participate and when to include a clinician in the activity is based on the needs and abilities of the couple.
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